Case
Examples of
RLT
The following examples
are
testimonies of how RLT works with each contains a lesson learned.
Names
are changed to protect privacy, except Jocelan and Ben, who gave
permission to
tell their story.
A.
Jocelan
RLT started with
the author
and his wife, Jocelan. When they met, it was love at first
sight.
But then Jocelan’s trauma, and therefor her behavior, started to
affect their
relationship. In Jocelan’s own words:
“When the
last of the people
who had caused me the deepest sorrow and anguish and pain (these were
always
the people closest to me, generally family) had passed away (or were
out of my
life by my own choice), I now believed I would be able to lead a
productive and
fulfilling life with Don, the man I loved and who loved me. I
have always
loved the Lord and been of a naturally forgiving nature, never dwelling
on or
nursing past hurts or injustices, but always looking up and forward and
pushing
down and suppressing the negatives in my life. What I did not
understand
about human nature, and most of us fail to acknowledge, especially if
we are
Christians, is that yes, God can totally heal us and set us free from
all of
our past hurts, but experience has shown us that even in physical
healing of a
miraculous nature, in most cases God expects us to do our part: changes
in our
lifestyle, nutrition, exercise, healthier mental habits, scripture
study and
time alone with the Lord.”
One day
Jocelan’s friend,
Janet, told her of a new technique, EMDR. Susan, Jocelan’s
daughter, had the
second book on Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR).
Jocelan
and her husband decided to try the procedure.
Jocelan had been
traumatized
throughout her life. At first, the EMDR procedure was long and
complex. Her husband simplified it and called it SEMDR.
SEMDR had
only five easy steps. Then SEMDR was reduced to one important
third step,
the desensitization step. This new one step procedure is called
the Right
Left Technique.
Lesson: The
Right Left Technique (RLT) works. The important action is to get
to the
trauma fast, and to eliminate it quickly and safely. Everything
else is
less important.
B.
Bill
Bill was an elderly
man who
was very suicidal and would not check into a hospital. When he
tried RLT,
he at first claimed that it was not working for him. Those around
Bill
could see the difference in his behavior after the first thirty minute
session. About a week later, Bill began seeing the improvement,
himself. He now has a new home, works out regularly, and instead
of withdrawn
and clothed with shame, he leads a peaceful and joyful life.
Lesson:
Removing a trauma, using RLT, does not have a “wow” type of
feeling. The
subject realizes the trauma is gone when the previous trigger occurs,
but they
experience no trauma.
Lifelong trauma can be eliminated at any age in a person’s life.
C.
Ben
Ben was a ten year
old boy who
was frightened by a friendly dog when he was eighteen months old.
He
could not remember anything about the incident; he only knew what his
parents
told him. Whenever Ben saw a dog, he would hide behind his
dad’s leg or
in the bushes. The day after using RLT, Ben telephoned and told
us he had
played with the golden retriever next door all day long. After
just four
minutes of help with his trauma, Ben’s trauma was overcome.
Lesson: The
remembering of the original trauma-causing incident is not required to
eliminate that trauma. Just talk about the reactions caused by
the
trauma, and the accompanying feelings as they become triggered.
You can eliminate trauma in a very short time. This can be under
four
minutes in some cases.
D.
Sam
Sam, an insurance
man, was
traumatized just an hour before he met with us, but he did not want to
tell us
about the trauma. We helped Sam without hearing about his trauma,
because
RLT does not require the subject to speak out loud. We walked Sam
to his
car as he left. On the way, he stopped and told us about the
event that
had traumatized him. With the trauma relieved, he was now relaxed
enough
to tell the story out loud.
Lesson:
RLT relieves trauma even when the person does not
talk out
loud.
After RLT, people can talk about their trauma
without stress.
E. Dan
Dan, now in his
sixties, was
traumatized as a young child, but could not remember anything about the
traumatizing event. Whenever he saw a bee, Dan would freeze; his
muscles
simply would not move. After about four minutes of discussing his
reaction to bees, while using RLT, the trauma was gone. A few
minutes after
using RLT, Dan in short pants, encountered several bees around his
mailbox. He did not freeze, and the trauma was gone.
Lesson:
RLT can eliminate lifelong trauma in less
than four minutes.
E. Marvin
Marvin had panic
attacks in
airports. He felt that his heart was going to stop or he would
pass
out. These attacks occurred every time he flew, and he flew
regularly. One RLT session and the panic attacks stopped.
Lesson:
Just because you talk about or repeat an action over and over, does not
mean
that the trauma will resolve itself. Each time you will just
re-traumatize yourself. Instead, use RLT to resolve the trauma in
a
single session.
F. Tim
We had known Tim
for some
time, meeting him at church on Sundays. On one weekend we talked
about
RLT, little on how it worked and the procedures. He was very
encouraged
about it. Two weeks later we ran into Tim again, and he told us
that RLT
was a life changing experience. He had been going to a support
group and
always cried when telling his story. After RLT, for the first
time he
could tell his story without crying. He said he combined RLT with
prayer
and this helped him even more. The Trauma Prayer was born.
Lesson:
Keep an open mind. You can learn from
each case, and sometimes from people who have no previous experience.
G. Dana
One evening, my
wife came into
the living room and said that we have to go to the local church music
team
dinner, even though we are not team members. “The Lord told
us to go.”
said my wife. There was no argument after that.
At the dinner,
everyone was
asked to explain what he or she wanted to do in the coming year.
“Keep
working with our trauma ministry,” was our reply. With
these words, a
young woman indicated that she wanted to talk to us. It seems the
Lord
had told her to go to the dinner too, though she was not a music team
member,
either.
Dana had been
traumatized
throughout her life and had many issues, issues similar to those
Jocelan once
had. To escape, Dana had even left her family and changed her
name.
Using RLT, we resolved each trauma, one at a time.
Lesson:
Each trauma needs to be worked on one at a time.
When
the Lord says to go somewhere, Jocelan and Don go!
H.
Shirley
Shirley phoned us
with the
news that she discovered her husband dead on the living room
floor. We
comforted her, and told her how well RLT works with trauma.
Together,
over the phone, we described how to use the Right Left Technique, and
worked
with her until she was calm enough to go on. Later, she phoned us
again
and told us how well RLT had helped her.
Lesson: A
helper does not need to be present in order
to administer RLT.
I. Janet
Janet is a very
special lady,
the person who started us on the RLT journey. She had attended a
lecture
on EMDR, and gave us a copy of the lecture’s handouts to
read.
Janet had the most
violent
background of any cases we have helped. She’d also had
physical head
trauma. With these in mind, her psychiatrist told her not to use
the EMDR
procedure on her own, because it might trigger seizures.
We worked with
Janet after
developing RLT. Only after going through the Right Left Technique
with us
was she able to finally put all the events of her past into the proper
time
sequence. And she did so without any seizures.
Lesson:
Not always are professionals aware of the latest techniques. This
one
knew little about EMDR, and nothing about
RLT.
J. Dawn
Dawn was another
example of a
wonderful woman who had experienced a bad childhood and adult
life. She
suppressed the trauma while young, but as she aged the trauma
controlled her
life more and more. With RLT she faced the trauma, got rid of it,
and
learned to live a happier life.
Lesson: Suppressed
trauma can show up later in life, and sometimes people use all their
energy to
control it. When control is impossible, bad
things can
result.
K. Helene
Helene was a
foreign student
at a local college and had difficulty taking tests. Anxiety
interfered
with her ability to do well. She discovered that if she practiced
RLT
before a test, it helped her to relax, and then she could do her best.
Lesson: The
relaxing feature of RLT helps people to relieve
anxiety and to
perform better at their tasks.
L.
Dave
While at a
Christian Men’s
Luncheon, the subject of RLT came up. One of the men at the
lunch, Dave,
had a friend who was deep in trauma and needed help. So the
author gave
Dave a copy of the RLT procedure. Several days later, Dave
reported that
his friend had read the literature and experienced life changing
results.
Lesson:
Just get the word out. RLT is a self help procedure, and can aid
people
you’ve not even met.
M.
Kathleen
Kathleen went to a
Post
Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) therapist for six months. When
she
discovered she was pregnant, her therapist chose to defer EMDR until
after she
gave birth. The therapist felt it better for Kathleen to live
with her
trauma during pregnancy, than to treat that trauma immediately.
In the meantime,
she obtained
a book on EMDR, and lent it to the creator of RLT. Later, he gave
Kathleen a copy of the RLT procedure. She used this new procedure
on
herself, and discovered that she no longer needed her therapist.
Since then,
Kathleen has used
RLT to help many people, and recommended others directly to RLT’s
creator.
Lesson:
It makes no sense to force a woman to suffer with trauma during
pregnancy, nor
any other time, when RLT – a relaxing
technique as well as a healing technique – eliminates that trauma
in as little
as four minutes per trauma.
N. Judy and Jim
Judy moved from one
side of
the
Luckily, Judy had a
friend. Judy’s friend knew about RLT and how it helps
people with trauma,
all over
Two months later,
Judy’s
friend visited Jim and Judy’s home in
The family’s
old traumas are
gone, so now they work only on new traumas when they arise.
Lesson:
Even with no personal contact, RLT helped a couple
that used it
on their own. Because of the free website, TraumaZapper.com, the
true
number of people helped by RLT remains unknown.
RLT is so simple,
easy, and
effective, that a novice benefits with no further instructions than to
read the
procedure, itself.
O. Georgia
We learned that
Just after telling
us this,
The following
afternoon my
wife talked with
Lesson:
The power of RLT was not yet known by this psychiatrist. He was
correct
that RLT has a relaxing effect, but he did
not know that its main value is the elimination of trauma.
P.
Kate
Kate was our next
door
neighbor. When her mother passed away we went to visit and to
give our
condolences. While there, we recognized that Kate was experiencing
emotional
turmoil over problems that she and her mother had not reconciled before
death.
Kate needed help to
work
through her grieving. So we assisted her with a single, thirty
minute RLT
session. When finished, Kate discovered that her traumas were now
resolved, and she expressed great relief at the knowledge.
Afterward,
Kate continued with a normal grieving process.
Lesson: You
may need to use RLT in situations where you did not expect it.
For
example, you might ask someone a question that accidentally triggers
one of
their past traumas, and that question might bring on a volley of verbal
abuse
against you, the poor victim. This is a time when you can
immediately
start using RLT to help that person. It might get you out of a
tough jam,
too.
Q. Louisa
A friend of ours
knew a lady
named Louisa. Louisa was having problem answering a list of
questions in
preparation for her upcoming court case. The anxiety she felt
over the
trial kept blocking her concentration, keeping her from accomplishing
the
task. By using RLT, our friend helped Louisa reduce her anxiety,
which in
turn enabled her to prepare for the trial.
Lesson:
We had no contact with Louisa; she was helped through a third
party. This
is an example where spreading the word about
RLT can enable third parties. Telling people how much RLT can
help them
IS WORKING.
.